Well here is what I decided to do. But have not tested yet. Ignore my horrible soldering job. I cut a relay pack off of and old dryer pcb I had laying around it had the exact same relays. I am 're locating the relay. I also noticed that my new relays have I diode on the coil side to prevent arcing I am assuming. But the old did not, maybe that's why they failed? Who knows but I'll be testing this tonight.
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